Inner-City Coach Seeks Moral Victories
- “Boys, you can only stand in the key for three seconds.”
- “What’s the key?”
- “Boys, you can’t get five fouls in a game.”
- “What’s a foul?”
These are actual early-season exchanges between coach David P. O’Brien JD’93 and some of the 10 sixth graders on his St. Andrew Nativity School CYO basketball team.
St. Andrew is not the typical Catholic grade school. Set in inner-city Portland, the Jesuit-sponsored project welcomes promising sixth-, seventh- and eighth-graders who cannot afford private school. The 60 students come from families struggling to make ends meet and many live in neighborhoods where they must navigate regularly past crime and drugs.
Several players on the Nativity team know basketball well, but most are new to it. Somehow, the lanky, bearded O’Brien binds the 11- and 12-year-olds together and teaches them the sport he loves.
O’Brien grew up in Fresno, Calif., attending Catholic school and playing basketball. He attended the University of California Santa Barbara and Willamette University College of Law. When not coaching, O’Brien runs the Human Resources Department at the Portland law firm of Hoffman, Hart & Wagner. He still plays on a competitive men’s basketball team.
The night before a recent game, O’Brien took his players out to dinner and then to Jefferson High School, where they watched a varsity basketball game.Game day dawned with progress and passion, as the Nativity sixth graders passed, cut to the open spot and even made a brave go at running a full-court press.
One player missed a shot and fell to the ground, discouraged. O’Brien clapped his hands and gave the dejected lad some positive encouragement. The boy got up and dashed down the court so fast that his wheels spun.
Next, the coach celebrated with a forward who pulled down several rebounds from a much taller opponent. When one of his players emitted a nascent grumble about a referee’s call, the coach nipped the complaint like lightning. Later, O’Brien clapped as an opposing player made a particularly impressive shot.
With one of his less experienced boys, O’Brien made a simple suggestion: Stand in this place instead. The boy follows the advice and has a breakout game, scoring 16 points. “You see that type of growth and it’s pretty exciting,” O’Brien said, more interested in development than a winning record.
But like any coach, he does want to win. And so do the boys, who have celebrated their two victories so far with great gusto. For a few, O’Brien has had to cultivate a competitive spirit. “Some are just really sweet-natured boys,” he said, laughing. “I say to them, ‘Hey you need to want to get the basketball!’”
The players with experience have gamely taken on the role of leaders, helping their peers learn. Amazingly, they don’t get down on those who make mistakes. The team has a mix of white, black and Hispanic. About 80 percent of Nativity students play hoops. O’Brien has watched with satisfaction as the boys’ basketball skills have developed and their personal discipline has advanced. He’s had to lay down the law now and then.
“I hope they enjoy themselves and learn the fundamentals of the game and the fundamentals of being members of a team, of teamwork,” O’Brien said. “My hope is that we’ve planted a seed, a love for the game and an appreciation of teammates.”
“There’s a lot to learn about life through sports,” he concluded.
— Ed Langlois
Originally published in the March 5, 2010, issue of the Catholic Sentinel. Reprinted with permission of the author.